My sexuality isn’t something I talk about or advertise in my profile, because I simply don’t feel the need. I try my best not to put myself in some box under some label that someone else came up with, but for some reason if you don’t claim a “team” its automatically assumed that you’re straight. Honestly, I don’t really care that much what people think, but I suppose if I had to assume a label, I’d say I’m pansexual. Now, this is one of those things that people seems to confuse with bisexual, but the its actually a bit different. It simply means that sexuality is fluid and that I love people. The people I have loved over the years have been a variety of things. I’ve loved mostly men, that’s true, but I’ve loved women, too. In Second Life, I’ve loved women that used male avatars. They didn’t identify as men in real life and had no desire to, but they were more comfortable living as men in Second Life. That’s one of the beauties of Second Life. You can be whatever you want….young, old, male, female…thin, fat, tall, short…etc.
So, why say anything about it now? Well, I recently heard someone make a comment about bisexuals & pansexuals being wishy washy and greedy. I have to disagree. I’m VERY picky and you’ll be hard pressed to find anyone on the grid that would say otherwise. I’m not out there sleeping with everyone. I won’t date just anyone to fill that relationship void. Even in my darkest hours, I didn’t do that. The question I have is why does it matter who I love? Why does it matter who anyone loves? Love is a beautiful thing and should be celebrated in all its forms. If you are lucky enough to find someone that you genuinely love and they love you back, then do you and be happy.